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Snapchat’s recent feature, the half-swipe, is causing unexpected anxiety among teenagers, particularly girls, by adding a layer of uncertainty to their dating lives and social interactions. According to the Wall Street Journal, this feature, which allows users to preview a message without fully opening it, has led to heightened stress in the already complicated world of teen relationships.

How the Half-Swipe Works

The half-swipe feature allows Snapchat users to briefly preview the content of a message without opening it fully. When a person uses the half-swipe, the sender is notified that their message has been viewed. However, if the recipient closes the message quickly, before lifting their finger, the sender is left unaware that their message has been seen. Snapchat originally designed this feature to reduce the pressure of instant responses, but its impact on teen relationships has been more complicated than expected.

For many teens, especially in dating situations, the half-swipe has caused confusion and self-doubt. Fifteen-year-old Elke Thorsen from Connecticut shared that the feature amplifies dating stress, stating, "It’s hard to grasp how someone feels about you, and the half-swipe just makes everything more confusing."

The Impact on Teenage Relationships

Snapchat has become the primary means of communication for many teenagers, often forming the basis of their relationships. When flirtatious or romantic messages are left unread or marked as read, it can signal interest or a lack of it, creating emotional stakes. The half-swipe, therefore, becomes a potential source of anxiety, as it leaves messages hanging in uncertainty.

In late 2023, Snapchat introduced a countermeasure for its premium Snapchat+ users, allowing them to see when someone half-swipes their message. A small “eyes” emoji would appear, signaling the user’s action. This new feature, however, has only intensified anxiety, with users fearing that they might be "caught" checking messages or, conversely, worrying that their messages are being ignored.

Seventeen-year-old Jordyn Drap from New York shared a frustrating experience: "I saw him half-swipe my message and then waited an hour for a response. He finally replied but didn’t even acknowledge the delay. It was frustrating because he was obviously on his phone."

Why Teenage Girls Are More Affected

Girls are often more sensitive to interpersonal stress, especially in the context of computer-based communication. According to Sophia Choukas-Bradley, a psychology professor at the University of Pittsburgh, girls tend to be more attuned to cues of rejection due to societal expectations of nurturing behavior. This makes them more likely to worry and overanalyze interactions, especially in dating scenarios.

Sixteen-year-old Elle Liemandt, who offers dating advice on social media, explained how persistent half-swiping could signal issues in a relationship. “If it happens once, let it go. But if it keeps happening, you need to re-evaluate the relationship,” she suggests, emphasizing how the behavior can negatively affect a teen's emotional well-being.

Why Boys Half-Swipe

On the other hand, many boys view half-swiping as a practical tool rather than an emotional tactic. Seventeen-year-old Keyen Gupta from Austin shared that he uses the half-swipe to give himself time to respond thoughtfully. "Sometimes I'm working on homework or busy, so I look quickly at the message and respond later. It's never intended to be mean," he said.

However, girls often make the worst assumption when they notice their messages have been half-swiped, leading to unnecessary anxiety. "There's never an explanation of why it happens, so you make things up in your head and think the worst," said Jordyn Drap.

The Bigger Picture

Snapchat’s half-swipe is not the first feature to spark controversy or deepen teenage insecurities. Other features, like Snap Maps, which reveals the locations of friends, and the friend solar system, which ranks friendships, have also contributed to anxiety in the social media age. Despite Snapchat’s claims that these features are intended to reduce pressure, many users feel that they are actually exacerbating the emotional toll of teenage social interactions.

A spokesperson for Snap said, "Our hearts go out to every teen who's dating. It's really tough! We've been thoughtful about the features we introduce to Snapchatters so that they will decrease pressure, not add to it." However, despite these assurances, many teens still struggle to navigate the emotional challenges posed by these social media tools.

The half-swipe feature, originally created to provide users with more control, has unfortunately turned into another source of stress in the already difficult world of teen dating, where clear communication is often obscured by digital uncertainty.


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