Priyanka Tiwari
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Married Couple Life Tips: Two people who are in love often think that their love is enough for a successful marriage. But having love in a relationship is not enough. In order to have a successful married life, there should be understanding, respect and agreement on several other crucial aspects. These particular issues must be taken into consideration if you are intending on or are already in a love marriage.
These issues need to be agreed upon:
1. Agreement on family values and traditions
Marriage is a union of two people, yes, but it is also the joining together of two families. Love is powerful, but what happens when the family values and traditions of both of you do not match? There can be complications later. Thus, it is necessary to appreciate how both of you shall be able to reasonably cope with each other’s families.
2. Understanding of financial situation and expenses
After marriage, there is almost always a problem considering financial planning, do both of you spend money in a particular way? Is he a miser, or does he know how to spend? Is he manage his finances properly? It is critical that each of you shares a common outlook on these issues as disputes regarding finances can cause stress in any relationship and by far the most difficult one.
3. Career and personal ambition
Assess both partners' career prospects is essential to understanding how individual ambitions will be accomplished in a marriage, assuming both are career driven. So, is any of the spouses going to do something different after getting married? Will one partner fill a lesser role in his career to accommodate the other partner’s career? These questions and their answers should be available before some of you actually gets married.
4. Thinking about children
The desire to have kids differs greatly; one or both parents may have children sooner than their career goals allow, while others prefer a slower approach. Some partners dream of larger families, others with only one or two kids. This could be a tricky subject that if not agreed upon might cause significant long-term issues and be fractal on how family perceives this topic.
5 Allocation of tasks and shared family activities
These days, where both men and women go out for work, it is essential to have a balance of household chores. Life becomes relatively easier if you both have an understanding of how to divide household chores and responsibilities.
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