Priyanka Tiwari
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Suspense crime, Digital Desk : The beginning period of a romantic relationship that eventually leads to marriage is often characterized with high levels of passion, deep emotional bonds, and the freedom of choice. Although in some cases, an ideal romantic expedition can unfortunately turn strained, it does not come as a surprise to people that despite the deep-rooted emotional connection or bonding that lays the foundation of a love marriage, a large number of couples marriage experience some form of disconnection in the later years of their marriage.
Pinpointing the reasons behind why such distance is created amongst partners prove to be useful in tackling potential issues before they arise. Here are five fundamental reasons where love marriages could encounter some issues if not tended to properly.
1. Desirable Expectations That Are Unlikely to Occur
A partner’s habits quirks such as their laugh or even their voice and their way of speaking tend to feel charming and with time even lovable before a marriage. While after marriage those same traits can turn into irritants and extremes. This generally happens due to the fact that a large percentage of people make assumptions regarding their partners changing post marriage and this expectation does not get fulfilled.
2. Cultural or Social Family Interference with Varied Backgrounds
Partners having social or cultural differences sometimes bring obstacles. A person’s approach or spouse towards various family values relatives can add undue stress to the relationship.
3. Ego Conflicts and Power Struggles
Love entails sharing everything with each other, and this becomes a problem when a couple transitions into marriage, because disagreements concerning division of responsibilities, finances, and decision-making arise. Partners conflicting with each other tend to overbearing need to be right or refusing to hear the other side can lead to ego conflicts that gradually erodes respect as well as emotional security.
4. Lack of Romance and Communication
Social obligations like work and taking care of the house and children increase tremendously after marriage, leaving little to no time for couples to spend together. An increase in lack of romantic gestures or meaningful conversations often widens the satisfaction and emotional gap.
5. Social Media Comparison and Unrealistic Standards
The constant need to compare one’s relationship with pictures of “ideal couples” on social media widgets tends to lower one’s self-worth. The ongoing exposure to other’s so-called ‘ideal life’ results in disappointment, unrealistic expectations, and immense strain between partners.
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